It's tough to stay constant in this rapidly changing environment.
That's prolly why they say "Change is the only constant".

But how do we measure change? Change in a way that it is constant?
How do we measure whether that change is effective? Good? Bad?
Ppl change everyday.. every single day.
It's not possible to monitor them, however one can still observe those that are visible to self/others.

So, I took at good look yesterday. At people around me.
Wow.

The easiest and fastest thing that can change is Attitude.
Not the in-depth attitude and beliefs, but it is the more superficial attitude that one can observe.
It is a well-known fact that girls are fickle-minded.

Indeed.

Just look at our attitude changes. (Note: Attitude change does NOT equal to mood swings)
I used to hang around boys when i was small. Like primary and secondary school. They're just different = sports they play, the jokes they say, the communication style they had. If there were girls, they're the more manly kind (e.g. Kerr, Xinhui, Van. LOL).

Anyway I was saying, hanging around boys was easy and relaxing. They're unhappy they'll shoot you right in the face. They're envious or admires you, they'll praise you right then.

Turn that around for girls.
More girls came into my life during poly period. It was when I entered, my whole class was girls except for 3 miserable guys. Then in the later year, THE CLASS WAS TOTALLY FEMALE!!! There were definitely fun and laughter!! When girls go crazy, they really really go crazy. lol. But the attitudes were quite bad. You see one today, another one tmr. Even worse, you see one now, you see another one later!

It's the "internal conflicts" and "behind-the-back" stuffs that almost drove me crazy. Thank god I had Rey and Pok and Dean and Vic - the dominant male chauvinists. Just watching them talk to each other is so entertaining. Well of course I talked to them a lot too. In fact, i only talk to them. Else it would be my father, brother..........
(Am not trying to badmouth girls and praise the boys. I dislike boys except those 4 buddies.)

Still, one needs to survive out there in the rapidly changing environment. So what do you do??




CHANGE!!!


In another words, you learnnnnn, and then adjust your thinking, behaviours, attitudes, beliefs. This requires a lot of self-discipline, because you tend to get influenced out there. Say you hang around with XXX a lot. XXX starts to eat healthy food, you ask why. XXX said it's good for blah blah blah. It happens so often you cant help but notice it, learn it, be affected by it. God knows you start to eat healthily too. Another more obvious and faster change is talking style/most frequently used word or phrase. It's prolly the easiest to influence. So if you wanna withstand influence, you gotta be STUBBORN (not all the time though).

So far I'm coping alright with my rapidly changing environment. There have been more changes on a recent note. I felt like I wanted to 'expose' everything but I knew it's gonna make things worse.


TOLERATION and SELF DISCIPLINE IS THE KEY TO EVERYTHING





Ok, it's time for school. =>













It should be...........

Angry = Angry face
Sad = Sad face
Confused = Frown
Jealous = Smug face
Happy = Smiley face




But you saw..........

Angry = Smiley face
Sad = Smiley face
Confused = Smiley face
Jealous = Smiley face
Happy = Smiley face