I just happened to stumble upon a friend's blog. You know, through clicking links and then clicking on more links that led to me to her blog. We're not close friends, I would say we are normal friends.

Em.. So I read through her entries, really really lotsa looooong entries. My, is she troubled. There was this post about her ex (i suppose so), where she wrote down a whooooole full list of what she likes about her ex. Initially I thought it's gonna be like, 10, 20 or at most 30 things. But hell NO~ Not 30, not 40, not 50.. but 70!!!

-faints-

I can feel that she's deeply in love. She fell reeeeeaaaaaaal deep into it. From that long list, I saw truth, loyalty, honesty, faith and undeniable feelings. Those 70 stuffs that she wrote, are those small little things that only lovebirds will notice, you know, in between themselves... And I believe such small little stuffs are what love embraces. In fact, those constitutes only a small part of the often complex relationship between lovebirds.

Seriously, do you take note of every single detail, aspect, feature, factor, particular part and component of your relationship? Frankly speaking, it's impossible right? Who on earth has so much time to do so?? So eng meh??? Think they have super-brains?? People with normal IQ will know that it's impossible. Yet, some ppl still expect their partners to notice every single thing. dohhhhhh

Such human beings are everwhere. According to my stats, 99% of such demanding human beings are -- females. Hah.. Going one big round and shooting my own species.
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Nah.. Actually I gladly admit it. I am a demanding lover. I can go like, I want you to be this, I want you to do that, I want you to say this, I want you to know that, etc. I am definitely not a very particular person - towards my friends. But my lover gotta be someone who can keep pace with my "standards" or even surpass my expectations. Whoever falls behind, shall be left behind...

-Hiak Hiak Hiak-

Damn. I let you guys found out the other side of me.. Hah~ It's alright. There're still many devilish traits of mine that you havent seen... *evil laugh*

Ok la.. Im not trying to say females are all demanding. Just majority. It's more of a norm for girls to be demanding than guys to behave so. (If there's one, he gotta be a wuss!!)
Yeah, maybe because a girl's 'weaker' than a guy psychologically and emotionally, which explains her inadequacy of security, and therefore resulting in her longing, wish, demand and yearn for assurance from her lover, possibly through demanding for little stuffs like birthday celebrations, anniversaries, gifts, hugs and kisses, phone calls, etc.

Failure to do so will result in jealousy, doubt, insecurity, loss of trust, emotional vulnerability, mood swings, breakdowns, eruptions, anger, hatred etc. If it's a serious case, revenge will follow..... Scary....

Ahhhh... Females... Such complicated creatures. Even I don't understand some of my own species. I think I gotta go read up more on such stuffs. You know women nowadays are getting more and more career-minded, even though they have a family. What if my future boss is a ciak-peh-peh????? Goodness...........................


"if you are like bored, go fall in love or something :) It's a pretty nice feeling" ~xiaxue